Domestic violence is so commonplace these days that most people take it as something very normal in the society.

The most popular kind of domestic violence is that perpetrated by men against helpless women and guess what? Most of these men that do it are your friends, your neighbors and colleges. Their wives stay out of sight for days and weeks only to pop and tell you they were busy with something or the other at home or went to visit with relatives while all they've been up to is hiding in the house, nursing the wounds their men gave them after a terrible beating to suppress all pr3evous beatings.

Most of these women endure whatever is thrown at them with the hope that the man will change or things will get better.

"It's just the money problems." they say. "Jacob still loves me and I love him so much."

"What an idiot!" I say.

Listen, there are many ways to commit suicide and in this case, Jacob is one of them. The truth is, a bully is a bully, a sadist is a sadist, a wicked man, a heartless man, a man without principles, they will always stay the same. These kinds of men en never really change never change but they are among the best pretenders on earth.

The will act like gentlemen to woo you, like the perfect lover you keep dreaming about. They'll ask your friends what you love and they will do it to get. Why? They may love you alright but then that violent character in them will destroy you (domestic violence) while you keep thinking of that love and then they will move on to another. That's life.

The Simplest Way To Avoid Domestic Violence In Any Relationship 

To all who read my novels or other books by me, they would realize I advocate one thing strongly at the beginning of every relationship to avoid the future problem of domestic violence.

Try to get you man very angry during courtship at least once!

Why? Simple, it brings out the beast in them. That beast they are trying to hide from you. Some men can tame that beast, others can't. With certain men, the beast does not exist in the violent form. But make no mistake, all men have it and it is it that brings on the case of Domestic violence.

The Simplest Way To Avoid Domestic Violence In Any Relationship -- Case Study

A Twitter user called Zippy has called off her wedding just 5 months to the event day despite the fact that invitations have already been sent out and other such arrangements made, She took this step after her Fiancee beat her black, blue and purple and she ended up in the Hospital for Weeks, 

She gives no reason for the assault but says it was so severe that she found walking difficult.

Read for yourself.

Did you notice her reference to being 'battered and beaten like a 'Dog?" That phrase tells you that the man she loved, the one she thought she loved and had a feature with beat her so violently and with such reckless abandon that she felt her life was worth nothing to him.

In a series of follow up tweets, Zippy explains that the man's family tried to pressure her into keep the whole thing a secret, overlooking it completely as unimportant and going ahead with the marriage 'since they had already made the arrangements and can't call it off!

Zippy refused, saying...better walk out late than tied up forever. 

The Simplest Way To Avoid Domestic Violence In Any Relationship 

Ladies, those of you that have ears, please hear. Those that don't, please make sure you have a will that gives the properties you will leave behind to the poor. No use giving that car and saving to the man who murdered you, is there?

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